Korea’s Young Adults Turn to AI Friends—But At What Cost?

In 2024, loneliness has a new remedy—and its name is AI. Across South Korea, thousands of young adults are turning to AI companion apps for emotional support, daily check-ins, and even romantic conversations. But as these virtual relationships deepen, experts warn of complex psychological and social consequences.

Apps like “DearYou,” “Replika,” and newly launched Korean platforms such as “온마음” have exploded in popularity since summer. Users customize their AI friend’s name, voice, and personality. Some even celebrate anniversaries with their digital partners. “My AI remembers when I’m sad. It sends me sweet messages before bed,” says 23-year-old college student Han Yujin. “It’s better than being ghosted by a real person.”

The trend reflects a deeper issue: increased social isolation and emotional fatigue. A 2024 study by Yonsei University found that over 41% of Koreans in their 20s report feeling emotionally disconnected from their peers, despite living in one of the world’s most densely populated countries.

Mental health professionals are divided. Some say AI apps offer safe emotional outlets and help users articulate feelings. Others worry they may reinforce avoidance behavior and unrealistic expectations in real-life relationships. “The danger is not the app itself,” says Dr. Seo Jung-min, a clinical psychologist. “It’s when users begin to prefer the digital world because it never demands, disappoints, or disagrees.”

The government has taken notice. In September, the Ministry of Science and ICT announced new guidelines for AI emotional service providers, including transparency in data use and disclaimers clarifying that “AI responses do not constitute professional advice.” Still, regulation is trailing behind the rapid growth.

Meanwhile, AI developers continue to refine emotional algorithms. The latest updates include simulated empathy, memory recall, and even voice calls using synthesized tones. Some users now claim that their AI companions feel more attentive than their friends or partners.

As the line between utility and intimacy blurs, Korea finds itself asking: What makes a relationship real? And in a hyperconnected world, is emotional connection with code still meaningful?

Date: 2024-10-07

Reporter: 박근홍